Skip to content

Posts from the ‘Personal’ Category

Biscuit My Teacher

For those who have been following my blog know that little Biscuit is our furbaby!  He arrived to live with us on January 7, 2011, after first meeting him and adopting him on December 24, 2010.  Biscuit has literally gone through a swift and wonderful transformation from a very sad and extremely timid dog living on the streets of North Carolina to a confident, loyal, and loving companion who travels with us almost every place we go!  Our lives are so much richer with Biscuit!

Live in the Present

Biscuit does not regret the past or ruminate about the future.  Biscuit lives here, now, and in this moment, responding to whatever is happening around him.  Biscuit reminds me to live in the present and to be present for him.

How much time do we spend in the past or the future?  How much ‘now time’ do we waste by going over what happened yesterday, last week, last month, last year, or by worrying about what might happen tomorrow?  When we do this, we lose some of the precious moments that are happening now because we are really just in our heads most of the time.  Also, the greatest gift to our animals to live in the present with them.  I practice being present with Biscuit each day.

Remember to Play

As humans, I think we forget this.  In our modern and fast-paced world, it seems to be all work and very little play.  Some people forget how to laugh because playtime is not regular enough.

I have learned to play more — especially with Biscuit!  Even though I have work to complete, I do it with a much more relaxed attitude, which is far healthier.

It is also good for the heart.  Playing with a dog generates oxytocin, a hormone that helps reduce stress and promotes happiness.  Overall and all the way around, dogs (animals) really help us in many ways and they enrich our lives!

Our greatest teachers are closer than we think

I now understand why some people say, ‘Did you know that Dog is God spelled backwards?’  I understand it now.   It is so simple, yet profound.

I believe that I have gently and gradually grown in mindfulness and awareness; however, being with Biscuit has led to awakenings in my life during this small segment of time.  Biscuit has been my/our teacher — he has opened my heart to new experiences.  He has taught me to be more present, aware, and patient.  He has also taught me to have more gratitude for the small things in life.  To me, what seems like something very small, makes a huge difference in Biscuit’s  life, impacting his happiness.   Biscuit is also my muse.  I likely have thousands of photos of our little man documenting our time together!  Biscuit came into our lives at the perfect time.  I truly believe that he is meant to be with us — he has truly captured our hearts forever.  I believe animals have a way in teaching us all about ourselves if we are willing to open our hearts and invest in the experience completely.

 

IMG_1413 2 2

Biscuit and me on top of Mount Equinox!

Project Life 365

Project Life 365 is a photo-a-day challenge that brings creatives together under a common interface to utilize their creativity.  Each day a “daily inspiration” is provided that will stimulate your creative juices!  (You can provide yourself  with your own direction instead of using the daily prompts!)  It does not matter whether you are literal, logical, or a free spirit; there are no wrong answers.  You can use your own DSLR camera and/or the camera on your phone.  The outcome of this project is that you will create and accumulate many images documenting your daily life.

I think that this is a neat project idea!  I typically photograph something virtually everyday, but I never thought of creating a project out of my daily photographs.   Because I like to document our little Biscuit, I photograph him just about everyday!  Even though the year is half over already (the time if flying), I think that I might give this project a try to capture and document some moments that I would not ordinarily think of capturing!  If you are interested in starting your own Project Life 365, you can read more here!

Here is a recent image of little Biscuit enjoying an outing!  (More photos of Biscuit are coming soon!)

 

IMG_1667 2

Begin Anywhere

Begin anywhere.  John Cage, an American composer and philosopher, is famous for saying these two words.   Cage tells us that not knowing where to begin is a common form of paralysis.  Therefore his advice — begin anywhere.  Too many people are stopped by “not knowing how to begin” and “not knowing where to begin.”  These two little words are a constant reminder that we are able to change thought, break through a lull, and reverse directions at any time.  We have the authority to start anew — right now.  Therefore, the stars do not need to align for me to act.

Sometimes when I feel like I am unsure where to begin I take a few steps back and reflect; however, sometimes if I spend too much time thinking I will talk myself out of starting and diving into a project.  Thus, I find that it is better to begin by taking small steps during those time where I am unsure where to begin.  Sometimes when I feel overwhelmed, I begin with something I know that I can complete, which gives me momentum to keep moving forward.  So the next time you feel like you are unsure where to begin, just begin anywhere and you will be amazed how much easier things seem when you just begin and you will likely end up in a better position that you initially envisioned!

 

IMG_1359 3

The Best Little Investment!

With the warmer months upon us, we got Biscuit a fan, which he loves.  I think it is the best $16.00 we ever spent!  Biscuit sleeps next to his fan and spends most of his day in front of his fan!  Perhaps the fan not only provides a way for Biscuit to be cooler, but it also provides some comfort!  We are happy Biscuit is happy!

Below is a photograph of Biscuit sleeping by his fan!  (I took this photograph after finding Biscuit sleeping in front of his fan after being at the gym!)

IMG_1697 2

Screen shot 2013-06-05 at 4.39.38 PM

Biscuit is doing really well.  He is really happy and enjoys going on outings with us!  We especially enjoyed our trip to Vermont – Biscuit had a wonderful time!  (I hope to share more photographs soon.  I have been a bit behind on my own editing!)  We are really excited to move to our new house!  Biscuit will have more space to explore and he will have  a whole neighborhood of dogs to meet and sniff!  We hope to know more information later this month as to when our house is expected to be completed!

Happy Thursday!

IMG_1654 2

Blog Books!

I have been working on my little blog here for nearly a year and a half!  The time has really flown by!  I have been researching places to have my blog printed in a book format, by year, to have as a keepsake (and a hard copy back up of my blog)!  I have been reading reviews about what companies people have been using that they have been pleased with.  I have read a lot of positive feedback about blog2print!  My plan, by the end of the year is to get things organized in order to get my blog printed for 2012 and 2013!  Hopefully, this will not be too big of a feat!  The nice thing about blogging is that it helps keep a permanent record of events and ideas that would have otherwise slipped by.  Even though it is a lot of work developing and keeping up the blog, I am grateful that I have done it!

If anyone out there has any feedback on good companies to use for this project, please let me know!

Happy Wednesday!

 

screen shot

Two Peas in a Pod!

Below are a few recent images of Biscuit and Doug relaxing and enjoying a lovely afternoon together — two peas in a pod!  Biscuit loves to sun himself — especially if he is simultaneously getting a belly rub!

Happy Friday!

IMG_8879 2

IMG_8876 2

IMG_8880 2

IMG_8873 2

The Simple Benefits of Spending Time in Nature

John Keats once wrote, “The poetry of the earth is never dead.”

Almost all of us have been moved by nature at one time or another.  Whether it is walking on the beach; walking alongside a stream or river; watching a sunset; listening to the birds chirping; or hearing the wind blow through the trees in the morning, nature can make you feel energized and alive.  Research indicates that there are rich and measurable benefits to being in nature.

“Research has shown that people with a greater sense of vitality don’t just have more energy for things they want to do, they are also more resilient to physical illnesses.  One of the pathways to health may be to spend more time in natural settings,”  Richard Ryan.

Why is time in nature important?  A series of studies in 2010 coordinated by Richard Ryan, professor of psychology at the University of Rochester confirms that the experience of being in natures causes people to feel more alive.  Ryan sums it up by saying, “Often when we feel depleted we reach for a cup of coffee, but research suggests a better way to get energized is to connect with nature.”  Better yet, nature not only makes us feel more alive and energized, it has proven to benefit both our mental and physical health, and our overall sense of well-being.

Ryan and others conducted a series of tests using college students to prove their point.  In one test subjects were taken on either a 15-minute walk in nature or another in a building with long hallways.  A second test had participants view a slide show of nature shots or in contrast, buildings around the country.  A third test asked those involved to imagine themselves in a variety of situations both active and sedentary, as well as inside a building or outside.   In addition, subjects spent a series of days recording their exercise, social interactions, time spent outside and inside (including time with by windows and with plants).   According to the test results in every single instance, those involved felt consistently more energetic when they spent time in natural surroundings.  Just 20 minutes a day was a significant benchmark for improved vitality.

I agree with Ryan’s research findings summarized above — I feel better and more energized after being outside.  While we were in Vermont, the temperatures were cool and the views were beautiful.  It felt really nice to spend our days outside surrounded by the mountains versus f inside behind a computer screen.  It was very peaceful and serene — a welcome change.  Of course, we enjoyed being with little Biscuit who was always making sure that he is not being left behind!  Doug and I did not leave him by himself at all — thank goodness everything was dog friendly!  When we packed the bulk of our things in the car the night before our departure, Biscuit patiently sat beside the car to ensure that he was not going to be left at the hotel!  Biscuit was on “high alert!”  Nevertheless, Biscuit had a great time!  (I hope to share more photos soon after I have a chance to finish editing the images from our trip!)  Even though we now are playing “catch up,” it was a welcome change to mix things up with a change of scenery and connect with nature!

It is incredibly hot and humid right now in Maryland, but we are looking forward to spending more time outside!  Below are a few photographs of the beautiful views of Vermont!

Happy Thursday!

IMG_0641 2

Biscuit Atop Mount Equinox

Yesterday we had the most gorgeous weather — the best weather day of our trip!  After more shopping and visiting more sites, we decided to drive to the top of Mount Equinox with Biscuit.  It is not every day that a little dog gets to go to the top of a mountain — or for that matter it is not every day that a person goes to the top of a mountain!  We had a nice time and the views were quite beautiful.  Mount Equinox is approximately 4,000 feet above sea level.  Mount Equinox towers above the other mountains in the Taconic Range and offers a 360 degree view which includes New York, Massachusetts, and New Hampshire.  Mount Royal in Montreal, Canada can also be seen.  The temperature was a bit cooler and there was snow at the top of Mount Equinox!  Biscuit had a great time transiting the top of the mountain!  (Hopefully, the change in altitude did not impact Biscuit’s little ears too much).  Doug and I really enjoy the mountains; they are beautiful.

We wish that we could stay in Vermont longer than a week!  It has been very peaceful and serene!

Below are a few photographs of little Biscuit atop Mount Equinox!  More photos will be coming soon!

IMG_1469 2

 

IMG_1310 3

Sneak Peek: Biscuit’s Excursion to Vermont!

Biscuit is having a great time in Vermont!  The views are beautiful.  Doug found and booked us a hotel with beautiful views of the mountains!  Vermont is truly a green state!  I am sure that it is also very beautiful in the fall with the foliage.  The pace here is nice and laid back, which has been a welcome change!

Biscuit has received many compliments during our trip!  Fortunately, for us, Vermont is very dog friendly!  Biscuit has been in every store we have gone in except the inside of restaurants!  Biscuit made his trip to the Flagship Orvis store where he was warmly greeted by the Orvis staff who knew Biscuit and were excited to meet him in person!  (Biscuit is an Orvis Cover Dog winner and the dog representing the Orvis Petfinder Commitment!)  While at Orvis, Biscuit got himself an Orvis fleece and a new Orvis outdoor dog bed for our new house!  Biscuit also made his way to King Arthur Flour and the Vermont Country Store!  Doug bought enough mixes at King Arthur to make us breakfast for the next several months!  Biscuit also went to New Hampshire to visit some sites.  Additionally, Biscuit shopped in Manchester until his paws dropped off!  Biscuit frequented all of the stores with us and he even came into the dressing room with me — Biscuit is so loyal!  He had a wonderful time at these places where many people commented on his natural good looks!   Biscuit is excited for more adventures today — the weather is gorgeous today!

(As a side note, at home, Biscuit usually sleeps in his Orvis bed near our bed.  However, on this trip, even though we brought Biscuit’s bed and duvet, Biscuit wanted to sleep in our bed!  Most mornings, I have been waking up in a ball because Biscuit has been sleeping at my feet!  I guess you know who rules the roost!)

A few photographs highlighting Biscuit’s trip thus far are shown below.  I will post more photos soon!

Happy Memorial Day!

 

IMG_9689 2

Dreaming Bigger

Life is short.  It is way too short just to sit back and wait for something to happen to you.  Knowing that life is short, you should try to maximize the amount of positive experiences you have.

Our dreams know well before we do what is possible.  We are just slower to respond and get on the same page because we are sure that there is not enough time, not enough money, not enough energy, etc.  However, dreams are not meant to have limitations.  Dreams are meant to defy limitations.  

The good thing about dreaming big is that it allows you to fall short and still gain a lot.  Confucius said, “If you shoot for the stars and hit the moon, it’s ok.  But you’ve got to shoot for something.  A lot of people don’t even shoot.”

Dreaming big pushes you to heights you might not have reached otherwise.  As someone pursues one of his/her goals, he/she may push himself/herself to heights he/she normally would not see.  Big dreaming can make your life big as a result.  You can get more than you normally would have expected.  It is dreaming big that has led to some of the greatest achievements humans have ever had.   For example, putting man on the moon; developing the World Wide Web; developing the printing press; creating the first car; developing vaccinations, etc.  Someone had to think of those big ideas first before they made them happen.  Your dreams are no different.  Most of all, dreams give you hope — the hope that things can and will be bigger, brighter, and better.

What is tugging on your sleeve?  What dream is waiting for you to usher into this life?  Whatever it is, however simple or big or out of reach it may feel, it has a purpose, and it has chosen you to deliver its message.  You are the one it has been waiting for.  It is vitally important to: 1) listen to your whispers along the way; 2) have a passion for what you are doing; and 3) have an absolute commitment to living the dream into reality.  Without those three things, you will not have your very own heart and soul roadmap to guide you along the way.

Are you dreaming big enough?  What are some of your dreams?

 

dreaming bigger