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Sneak Peek: Biscuit’s Excursion to Vermont!

Biscuit is having a great time in Vermont!  The views are beautiful.  Doug found and booked us a hotel with beautiful views of the mountains!  Vermont is truly a green state!  I am sure that it is also very beautiful in the fall with the foliage.  The pace here is nice and laid back, which has been a welcome change!

Biscuit has received many compliments during our trip!  Fortunately, for us, Vermont is very dog friendly!  Biscuit has been in every store we have gone in except the inside of restaurants!  Biscuit made his trip to the Flagship Orvis store where he was warmly greeted by the Orvis staff who knew Biscuit and were excited to meet him in person!  (Biscuit is an Orvis Cover Dog winner and the dog representing the Orvis Petfinder Commitment!)  While at Orvis, Biscuit got himself an Orvis fleece and a new Orvis outdoor dog bed for our new house!  Biscuit also made his way to King Arthur Flour and the Vermont Country Store!  Doug bought enough mixes at King Arthur to make us breakfast for the next several months!  Biscuit also went to New Hampshire to visit some sites.  Additionally, Biscuit shopped in Manchester until his paws dropped off!  Biscuit frequented all of the stores with us and he even came into the dressing room with me — Biscuit is so loyal!  He had a wonderful time at these places where many people commented on his natural good looks!   Biscuit is excited for more adventures today — the weather is gorgeous today!

(As a side note, at home, Biscuit usually sleeps in his Orvis bed near our bed.  However, on this trip, even though we brought Biscuit’s bed and duvet, Biscuit wanted to sleep in our bed!  Most mornings, I have been waking up in a ball because Biscuit has been sleeping at my feet!  I guess you know who rules the roost!)

A few photographs highlighting Biscuit’s trip thus far are shown below.  I will post more photos soon!

Happy Memorial Day!

 

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Dreaming Bigger

Life is short.  It is way too short just to sit back and wait for something to happen to you.  Knowing that life is short, you should try to maximize the amount of positive experiences you have.

Our dreams know well before we do what is possible.  We are just slower to respond and get on the same page because we are sure that there is not enough time, not enough money, not enough energy, etc.  However, dreams are not meant to have limitations.  Dreams are meant to defy limitations.  

The good thing about dreaming big is that it allows you to fall short and still gain a lot.  Confucius said, “If you shoot for the stars and hit the moon, it’s ok.  But you’ve got to shoot for something.  A lot of people don’t even shoot.”

Dreaming big pushes you to heights you might not have reached otherwise.  As someone pursues one of his/her goals, he/she may push himself/herself to heights he/she normally would not see.  Big dreaming can make your life big as a result.  You can get more than you normally would have expected.  It is dreaming big that has led to some of the greatest achievements humans have ever had.   For example, putting man on the moon; developing the World Wide Web; developing the printing press; creating the first car; developing vaccinations, etc.  Someone had to think of those big ideas first before they made them happen.  Your dreams are no different.  Most of all, dreams give you hope — the hope that things can and will be bigger, brighter, and better.

What is tugging on your sleeve?  What dream is waiting for you to usher into this life?  Whatever it is, however simple or big or out of reach it may feel, it has a purpose, and it has chosen you to deliver its message.  You are the one it has been waiting for.  It is vitally important to: 1) listen to your whispers along the way; 2) have a passion for what you are doing; and 3) have an absolute commitment to living the dream into reality.  Without those three things, you will not have your very own heart and soul roadmap to guide you along the way.

Are you dreaming big enough?  What are some of your dreams?

 

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Obtaining Client Feedback

In a previous blog post, I mentioned the importance of obtaining client feedback.  As creatives, we look for affirmation from others — specifically from our clients as we document a personal time, so it is only natural to desire feedback.  Additionally, I like to obtain feedback from persons I trust on my personal photography work and projects.  I think feedback can help us grow.  In college, I particularly enjoyed receiving feedback from my professor and peers during photography critiques, which were constructive.

My clients share feedback with me.  If, however, you are looking for ways to have clients express their feelings, it is best to establish a relationship before the photography shoot.  If your client interactions are largely transactional in nature without personal communication then you cannot really expect them to treat you any differently than other business interactions.  In most clients’ minds, you are doing what they hired you to do — regardless of how personal you feel it is.

If you would like feedback from clients, I recommend that you to find ways to care and connect with your clients throughout your working relationship.  This will yield stronger communication and personal conversations that lead to written responses you seek and desire.

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Four&Sons Journal

I recently discovered Four&Sons, a digital dog loving publication.  Four&Sons is based in Australia and this publication appeals to a wide audience as it documents the relationship of man and his best friend.   To mark their first anniversary, Four&Sons have further explored their love of canine culture with the launch of a truly beautiful print publication, known as The Four&Sons Journal.   Printed on newsprint, the full-sized journal is a real treat for dog and design lovers.  Art, photography, and writing enthusiasts will surely love it!  Inside you will find an array of insightful interviews, artist profiles, and no shortage of photo-essays.

The Four&Sons journal has been created as a limited-edition souvenir of sorts.  Within its pages you will find haunting imagery, artwork and interviews with creative dog lovers the world over, for whom creativity and canine companionship is inseparable.  This includes work by photographers Nicolas Wilmouth and Andrew Pinkham, as well as dog-centric anecdotes from a global network of pet lovers including London-based designer Abigail Ahern; Melbourne-born NYC based artist Josh Gurrie and his partner Samantha; Melbourne jeweler Julia deVille; and local writer Max Olijnyk.

You can find the one-off Four&Sons journal for free in select shops in Melbourne, Sydney, London, New York and Los Angeles.  For those located elsewhere, a copy can be acquired online for between $3.50-7.50 AUD.

 

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Happy Wednesday!

Dapper Biscuit!

Biscuit had a good weekend!  We took Biscuit to the Red Parrot for dinner in Federal Hill on Friday night!  The food was good and Biscuit got to see some City doggie friends!  Biscuit does miss living in the City!  This past weekend Biscuit also got groomed and he got a bath in preparation for his trip to Vermont this week!  He was such a good boy!  We also took Biscuit on some walks this weekend since the weather was nice outside.  Some photographs of our dapper little Biscuit are shown below!

Happy Tuesday!

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What Dogs Teach Us

“Joy is what happens to us when we allow ourselves to recognize how good things really are.”  — Marianne Williamson

Are you a dog lover?  I know that I am.

Animals of all kinds can bring us so much joy.  Dogs live in the present – they just are!  Dogs make the best of each moment uncluttered by the sorts of complex fears and feelings that we humans have.  They do not judge, they simply take the world around them at face value.  Yet they have been part of man’s world for an unimaginable time.

Many people live their whole lives lost in thoughts of the past and the future.  Yet, we only truly live life when we are present to the moment.  And being present means being fully conscious of what is going on so we can participate fully and appropriately in the opportunities that present themselves.

In addition to practicing being present, below are some lessons that Biscuit has taught me.  Biscuit has been a teacher to us in many ways.

1. Feel Your Feelings – Dogs always let you know how they feel.  When we avoid our feelings we end up making things worse.  This is when we enter into depression and fear.  But, if you work through your emotions, you will heal faster.

2. Forgive – No matter what happened or what someone did, it is vital to let go and forgive.  I learned this from Biscuit.  Dogs are always in a state of forgiveness.  No matter how mad you get, dogs always seem to forgive and forget.

3. Be Present in the Moment – Dogs are amazing because they live their life in the moment.  They are not concerned about the past or the future.  We can learn to be in a state of flow and let the stress fall away just like our furry companions do so well!

4. Listen – Dogs are phenomenal best friends because they are such great listeners.  Sometimes we do not need to say a word, we just need to listen.

5. Be Compassionate – Dogs are the most friendly pets because of their constant compassion for everything around them.  Whenever I have a challenging day, Biscuit is right there and he always makes me feel better.  Just being there for others and letting them be who they are supposed to be without judging is one of the best things that we can do for someone.

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There is only one time that is important – NOW!  It is the most important time because it is the only time that we have any power.” — Leo Tolstoy

“The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, nor to worry about the future, but to live the present moment wisely and earnestly.” — Buddha

Biscuit’s Trip to Vermont!

Biscuit is gearing up for his trip to Vermont next week!  Biscuit is going to go to the Flagship Orvis Store!  Biscuit was the Orvis Petfinder Commitment Dog and an Orvis Cover Dog Winner — it only seems appropriate to take him to the Orvis Flagship Store!  We had planned to go to Vermont this past November with Biscuit, but we sold our house more quickly than anticipated!  We plan to also take Biscuit to King Arthur Flour — I am sure Doug will find some mixes that he wants to try!  We also plan to take Biscuit to the Manchester Dog Park and the Green Mountain National Forest!  We will also travel to New Hampshire to see some sites as well!  I am sure that we will find some places to take Biscuit and find some restaurants to eat outdoors with Biscuit!  It will be nice to have a change of scenery!  Biscuit will get groomed and bathed this weekend!

Below are some recent photographs of Biscuit taken this week at the home construction site!

Happy Friday!

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Biscuit and Nick!

Last week I shared some photographs of Nick from Nick’s photography commission, during my parents’ visit!  Many people really liked the photographs, especially the one of Biscuit and Nick together!  Well, here are a few more photographs of little Biscuit and Nick patiently waiting for a treat…well actually Biscuit waiting for some prescription kibble!  (Nick even tried Biscuit’s prescription kibble and did not mind it!)

Happy Thursday!

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Managing Client Expectations

One of the greatest challenges businesses face is managing client expectations.  I suspect the very word “expectation” creates a wide range of images for all of us.  An expectation is defined as presuming the outcome of an activity.  Expectations are generally based on perceptions, opinions, and other soft parameters, often without a rational basis, and often because of a lack of knowledge.  Human expectation is skewed toward predicting the best outcome.  Most people tend to expect positive outcomes.  While it is certainly better to have high rather than low expectations, unrealistically high expectations will create disappointment.  A disappointment is defined as a feeling of sadness, dissatisfaction, or displeasure when something is not as you planned.

We all are aware at some level that client expectation is very important, yet we may do little to proactively manage it.  Many times our approach is reactionary causing us to gloss over expectations or to fail to listen to the client altogether.  However, I believe it is very important to manage client expectations to ensure that the client understands the terms of the business engagement, and so ultimately, the client is happy with your work and deliverable.

Below are some tips to help manage client expectations.

1. Build a relationship.

People like to work with people they not only respect, but also personally like.  Therefore, developing a personal relationship goes a long way in building a stronger business relationship.  Experience is everything.  My goal for each client is to create and implement a personalized, fun, and seamless experience that exceeds the client’s expectations and makes each and every client feel like royalty.

2. Regularly communicate and address problems directly.

I do not know about you, but when I am working with someone, I rather receive regular communication and updates from the person I hired to ensure expectations are being met, etc.  When communication is direct and transparent, trust forms and helps to create and build the foundation for long-standing relationships.  A lack of communication is usually at the root of most of the problems associated with clients.  I make it a practice to respond within twenty-four (24) hours to client e-mails and correspondence to mitigate any misunderstandings and to show my clients that they are important to me.  Clients want to know and feel important when they have hired someone to work with.  Therefore, I believe it is important to be prompt in responding to all client communications.

3. Agree on goals, timelines, and deliverables.

It is important that you and  your client at the outset agree on goals, timelines, and deliverables.  Therefore, in the written agreement to be executed by the parties, it is very important to clearly set forth the goals; scope of work; fees; the specific deliverables; the specific timeline when events and deliverables occur, etc.  This clear information, which is communicated to the client in a clear manner, will help to set expectations on both sides, and will lead to mitigating any misunderstandings leading to the client being dissatisfied.  This process should make all of the goals, timelines, and deliverables clear to the client and it really helps to set the client’s expectations.

4. Be a counselor.

When you offer your client advice, direction, and input, etc., you become a truly valuable partner.  This style of open dialogue helps to establish respect.  Also, as a counselor to clients, you can help explain your services and deliverables so that the client can better understand your services.  Not all people are experts in your area of business.

5. Be a good listener.

Listening is one of the most misunderstood and least used tools in managing client expectations.  Many clients are unsure of what they are trying to accomplish or are not very good at articulating it.  As such, you must have excellent intuition and listening skills in order to identify key messages being communicated by the client.  One of the best ways to help clients and to manage client expectations is to repeat what you heard from the client and ask the client to confirm the accuracy of key takeaways, which will ultimately impact expectations.

6. Be kind.

It is crucial to always be kind, respectful, genuine, and consistent with your clients.  Clients should feel valued and they should never feel like they are being an imposition.  I know that I do not like working with others who are not kind to me, and it tremendously negatively impacts the client experience and relationship.  Always remember the “Golden Rule” when interacting with clients.  Kindness truly goes a long way in building trust and loyalty with clients.

7. Anticipate your clients’ needs.

I believe that anticipating your client’s needs is crucial to any successful business.  Thus, it is important to put yourself in “the client’s shoes.”  Making your clients feel important is a tremendous step in building loyalty.  Clients want to know that they are valued by your business.  Clients are the lifeline of your business and should always be treated as such.  Though you may not know all the needs of new clients, try your best to read them and anticipate what they may need.  Therefore, it is important to stay very organized and attuned to each client’s needs.  Do not be afraid to ask what else you can do to make the client happier.  Additionally, anticipating your clients’ needs helps to foster a seamless client experience for the client.

8. Always deliver on time what you promise.

It is extremely important to deliver what you promised on time to the client.  One sure-fire way to not manage clients’ expectations is to not follow through on the terms of your engagement with the client on time.  If clients are like me, they expect that everything be delivered on time as promised.  This is really important because you want to have credibility with your clients.  Clients should always feel very important and they should feel that you really are “taking care” of them.  Clients should not have to worry about you delivering on your promises.  It is very unprofessional, and very unfair to the client, to over promise and under deliver.  Instead, exceed clients’ expectations and over deliver — this is a wonderful way to exceed clients’ expectations and have a happy and satisfied client who will refer your services to their friends and family!

9. Ask your clients what they think.

Once your engagement with each client has come to an end, ask the client what he/she thought of your services and deliverables.  This will make your customers feel valued.  Importantly, you will also gain valuable insights to use as a valuable tool in your business.  You may learn things from clients that will improve your business.  Thus, it is important to be open and listen to the feedback from clients.  After all, without clients, what do we have?

10. Thank the client.

It is important to thank your clients for their business at the end of the engagement with the client.  Everyone wants to feel appreciated.  Everyone loves to receive fun mail and paper thank you notes, which are quickly going extinct.  A thank you is a sincere and personal way to tell the client that you appreciate them and appreciate their business.  As a result, I think that it is really important to take the time to say thank you to each client expressing your appreciation, which is so often overlooked.

In the end, you will begin to attract clients like yourself — the ideal client!  Knowing your ideal client, regardless of your line of business, is a key component to growth and satisfaction.  The qualities of my ideal clients are people who (1) truly value and appreciate fine art photography; (2) are selective and cannot imagine working with and hiring anyone else; (3) wants to work with someone who is detailed and organized; (4) wants a seamless and fun client experience; and (5) likes my brand and my blog.  I think you achieve this type of client relationship by marketing yourself in a personal way.  Eventually, you start to only attract clients that desire you, your talent, and your services, which makes for outstanding client relationships!

Happy Wednesday!

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Grandmother Power – Grandma Rose

Tara Mohr started a Grandmother Blogging Campaign.  When I read about this blog campaign, I thought that this was a neat campaign to commemorate grandmothers.

Grandma Rose Painting

My husband, Doug, was very close to his Grandma Rose; and she was a wonderful role model in my husband’s life.  I had the painting of Grandma Rose, shown above, made as a gift for Doug a few years ago by Mary Medrano.  This painting reflects how I remember Grandma Rose; and she loved yellow roses.  I was fortunate to know Grandma Rose for five years before her passing.  She was an amazing woman.  Her integrity, her generosity, her perpetual sense of optimism, her honesty, and her sense of humor are all characteristics that we strive to incorporate into our lives.

Grandma Rose was an extremely generous person.  While Doug’s parents both worked full-time, Grandma Rose stayed at the house with Doug and his brother.  Doug has many fond memories and stories of his Grandma Rose, especially when she stayed at their house for weeks at a time.  Whenever we would go and visit Grandma Rose in Cincinnati, Doug and I would spend hours with her talking in her apartment on a wide range of topics.  Often, we called Grandma Rose often on the telephone and told her about what was going on in our lives and she told us what was going on in her life.  Because of the distance, we mailed Grandma Rose cards and photographs so that we could share with her what was happening in our lives.  I wish that she could have met Biscuit.  We often think that she brought him into our lives at the right time.  Prior to adopting and rescuing Biscuit, Biscuit was living at the Sheltie Haven Sheltie Rescue, Inc. on Rosemary Court — an uncanny coincidence.  (Rosemary was Grandma Rose’s full name).

Doug always spoke highly of Grandma Rose’s cooking.  Doug loved her pork chops and her roast beef, two of his favorites.  Doug said that everything Grandma made was delicious; her  goetta, her hash, her vegetable soup, monkey bread, and Christmas cookies were some of Doug’s favorites.  Fortunately, we have some of Grandma Rose’s recipes.  Doug had an annual ritual of making Christmas cookies with Grandma Rose.  Grandma Rose prepared the dough.  She and Doug’s Mom then helped Doug and his brother roll the dough and cut out the cookie shapes.  I am lucky because Doug enjoys cooking and baking like Grandma Rose!  For example, Doug makes monkey bread, scones, crepes, waffles; and Doug also makes some terrific dinner dishes as well!

Grandma Rose always had a sense of humor.  I can remember her saying to us after she told us a story, “Isn’t that the craziest thing you ever heard!?”  She was always very honest with her opinions and she always spoke her mind!  No matter what was going on in our lives, Grandma Rose always told us that everything would always be ok and not to worry.

Most of all, Grandma Rose was always there for my husband — a constant in his life.  She emphasized that we only have one shot at life and to pursue one’s dreams.  Grandma Rose was an independent person, unafraid to speak her mind, who believed in living life to its fullest and without regret.  I admire these qualities.

Fortunately, Grandma Rose is with me each day.  Doug’s mom was generous enough to give me the remaining diamonds from Grandma Rose’s wedding ring.  Doug’s mom placed the two large diamonds from Grandma Rose’s wedding ring next to the diamond on her engagement ring.  We initially planned to add the nine small diamonds to my engagement ring, but the jeweler said that they were too small to add to my engagement ring.  So, then we decided to make a ring and we added six small rubies matching my engagement ring that Doug designed on his own for me.  (Doug has good taste and I like how my engagement ring is unique!)  Below is the finished ring made by the jeweler.  I am so happy that we have something of Grandma Roses to keep in the family and it is a constant reminder that she is always with us.

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I hope that if I am ever a grandma, that I can strive to be an influential role model and grandma like Grandma Rose.  We both miss her dearly and she is always with us in our hearts.

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On another note, Happy Mother’s Day to all!  I had a nice day with Biscuit and Doug!  Doug and Biscuit made me crepes yesterday morning for brunch; and we all spent the day together and we all had a nice dinner together!  Biscuit gave me a thoughtful Mother’s Day card shown below!  Biscuit is doing well.  He loved being outside in the sun yesterday.  We went for a long scenic walk, which he greatly enjoyed!  A few photographs of Biscuit are shown below from our walk yesterday!

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