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Seeing

“Find a bit of beauty in the world today. Share it. If you can’t find it, create it. Some days this may be hard to do.” –Lisa Bonchek Adams

There have been many hard things going on in our world, and I truly love the quote above, and it rings so true. A bit of beauty can lift us from the mundane, from the drudgery, from the crueler aspects of living. What sweet relief.

I also love Annie Dillard, a great teacher in learning to see.In Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, Dillard writes about how, as a young child, she would hide a penny in the roots of a sycamore or a gap in the sidewalk, then draw arrows in chalk toward it, sure that discovering the copper coin would make someone’s day. Years later she could see powerful symbolism in that innocent expectation. Below is an insightful paragraph from Dillard:

There are lots of things to see, unwrapped gifts and free surprises. The world is fairly studded and strewn with pennies cast broadside from a generous hand. But—and this is the point—who gets excited by a mere penny? If you follow one arrow, if you crouch motionless on a bank to watch a tremulous ripple thrill on the water and are rewarded by the sight of a muskrat kid paddling from its den, will you count that sight a chip of copper only, and go your rueful way? It is dire poverty indeed when a man is so malnourished and fatigued that he won’t stoop to pick up a penny. But if you cultivate a healthy poverty and simplicity, so that finding a penny will literally make your day, then, since the world is in fact planted in pennies, you have with your poverty bought a lifetime of days. It is that simple. What you see is what you get.

Happy Mother’s Day!

I cannot believe Mother’s Day is already upon us. All mothers and mother figures deserve to be celebrated on Sunday. Mothers that have been blessed with babies; mothers who’s babies left too soon; mothers who are waiting to meet their special baby; mothers who are yearning to become a mom; fur moms; and those who are mother figures. We need all types of mothers to help us through this life. The journey towards motherhood is not always freshly paved. The path towards parenthood, for us, was filled with unexpected twists and turns, which made for a long and complicated journey. I feel so fortunate to be a mom to our little human and our beloved fur girl, and I am very grateful for this season together, which I never take for granted. So wherever you are in your journey, you are worthy of every celebration held in your honor. Happy Mother’s Day, to every type of mama out there!

“In all the world, there is  no heart for me like yours.  In all the world, there is no love for you like mine.” — Maya Angelou

Below is Alex and I together on Mother’s Day together, and it is difficult to believe it is our seventh one together!

Spring Break: 2025

We recently had our spring break together, where we all had some time off together from work and school! It has been a crazy first quarter of the year, for sure, and we welcomed some time away together. We have always loved going to the beach, with Victory, a place of refuge, before Alex was born during the off season. So, we decided to go to Rehoboth Beach and Dewey Beach with our girls! We had so much fun together! Alex’s only complaint was that Funland was not open for the season, yet! Doug and Alex picked out a parrot kite, which they successfully flew pretty high, over the ocean!

We made it back home for Easter, and Alex made some beautiful eggs, which she loved creating! Alex and Victory had an Easter egg hunt left by the Easter Bunny, one of Alex’s favorite things she looks forward to on Easter! On Easter day, we went to an Orioles baseball game, which was fun, and the Cincinnati Reds won, to Doug’s delight!

We also received some good news, while we were away, about Victory’s recent health issue, which we are so grateful for. She is on a new medicine, and we are waiting to see how she responds.

It was nice to have some time off together and to be able to spend time together! A few photos of our time away together are shown below!

Nationals: Pups in the Park

Happy Friday! We were on spring break last week! A few weekends ago, we took Alex and Victory to Pups in the Park at the Nationals!  This was our ninth time attending Pups in the Park at the Nationals with Victory, and our third time attending with both Alex and Victory! (You can view our previous trips to Pups in the Park: herehereherehereherehere, here and here.)  

We had really nice weather for the game–it was a little overcast with really great temperatures, perfect for Victory! This is the second Pups in the Park game that Alex will remember, as she does not remember first going in 2019, prior to COVID, as she had just turned one. Alex and Victory got to meet Screech for the first time at this game! Victory was a little trooper and had fun as well. We all had a great time!

Below are several photos from our visit!  We hope to return for another Pups in the Park game again this fall with our girls!

Happy Friday!

Moving Parenting Advice from Kahlil Gibran

In the final years of his long life, which encompassed world wars and assassinations and numerous terrors, the great cellist and human rights advocate Pablo Casals urged humanity to “make this world worthy of its children.” What is the worth of children, what are our responsibilities to them (when we do choose to have them, for it is also an act of courage and responsibility to choose not to), and what does it mean to raise a child with the dignity of being an unrepeatable miracle of atoms that have never before constellated and will never again constellate in that exact way?

A century ago, perched between two worlds and two World Wars, the Lebanese-American poet, painter, and philosopher Kahlil Gibran (January 6, 1883–April 10, 1931) addressed these elemental questions in a short passage from The Prophet, shown below, which I love.

When a young mother with a newborn baby on her chest asks for advice on children and parenting, Gibran responds:

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
And though they are with you yet they belong not to you.

You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward nor tarries with yesterday.
You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth.
The archer sees the mark upon the path of the infinite, and He bends you with His might that His arrows may go swift and far.
Let your bending in the archer’s hand be for gladness;
For even as He loves the arrow that flies, so He loves also the bow that is stable.

Victory: Pet Rover

Our beloved Hound About that we have used for over 13 years, with both Biscuit and Victory, is no longer working properly, which is a bummer. We got such good use out of it, and we kept it together in the final years with replacement parts, we kept on hand, and new wheels, but since the Hound About and its parts are not made any longer, we had to find a new option for our fur girl, Victory! After doing some research, we opted for the Pet Rover, and we got this model, Alex picked the yellow color because she liked the look of a taxi!

Victory absolutely loves her Pet Rover, and it has been a great substitute to our former Hound About, which we hold wonderful memories of our furry family members! Victory is thoroughly enjoying her rides in her Pet Rover, since the weather is getting a bit warmer, finally, which has been a great morale boost for her! Alex loves pushing the Pet Rover as well, and Victory loves her new wheels and rides in the fresh airl!

Below is a video of our beloved fur girl out for her evening ride!

Tangibly Preserving Your Child’s Artwork

This post is a little late, but last year, I made a book of Alex’s Kindergarten artwork. I had saved so much of her artwork, from Kindergarten, and I wanted to find a way to save it without holding onto every piece of her artwork, if you know what I mean. So, I photographed and edited the pieces that I wanted to save, to include in this book. I made a 60 page book of all of her Kindergarten artwork, approximately 120 pieces of her artwork, via OnceUpon, and I selected the matte paper option. The book turned out well, it is simple in design, and not as expensive to print as compared to other places where you can make books.

The best part is—I printed one of these books for Alex, and she loves looking at her art via this book, and it is also a way to encourage her to keep making her beautiful art, which she loves to make, daily—she is very creative! The arts are really important, and we hope to keep fostering this love within Alex. I hope to continue to make yearly books of her artwork as a way of preserving her artworks! Here are Alex’s previous artwork books, which you can view here and here. I am still making our family yearbooks, and I am a few years behind due to my recently released book, so I will have to find a way to catch up, as these books are so meaningful to have and to share with your family!

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Happy Heart Day!

Happy Heart Day! We are celebrating Valentine’s Day today and over the weekend, with Alex and Victory! Alex had quite the Valentine’s Day party at her school, along with a swim team Valentine’s party tonight! This weekend, we are celebrating with a dinner at one of our favorite restaurants! Alex and Victory are quite the pair! As you can see via the image below, my girls adore each other, and they are the perfect pair! I am so grateful for our beautiful girls, and I am so grateful to be their Mama! Alex loved making valentine cards and gifts for her friends and family–she is so incredibly thoughtful! Of course, Victory is integral to any family celebration!

Despite everything that is going on in our world, I hope you have a Happy Heart Day!

Thirteen Year Blogiversary!

Today is the thirteen-year Blogiversary of the blog!  I cannot believe it! It is extremely difficult to believe that thirteen years has already passed by so quickly!  The time moves so quickly, these days, and I often wonder where the time goes? Many things have changed, but some things remain the same, fortunately. I am grateful for this little space here.

If it were not for our beloved Biscuit, I am not sure I would have ever started blogging and I know that I would not have started my long-term photography project turned into a published book: ABANDONED: Chronicling the Journeys of Once-Forsaken Dogs, which was released into the world this past fall, for which Biscuit and Victory were my inspiration.  Biscuit was such a blessing and gift to us. Biscuit permanently changed our lives in so many positive ways and he sent us our precious little rescue sheltie, Victory, who we adore and love, shown below! And, coincidentally, Victory is the same age (we suspect, as she is a rescue dog) as the blog!

Thank you for reading this blog for however long or short you have been visiting!  I truly enjoy creating content for the blog to share with all of you, and I hope that you continue to enjoy visiting and reading the blog!

Thank you so very much!

Mantra for 2025

I hope you had a nice Holiday! We visited with family, we had some down time with our girls, and we all got some sleep and rest, which was so nice, and we have had a couple snow days! And, I cannot believe our little girl is turning six-and-a-half-years-old next week! She is growing in every way and she loves learning, she is incredibly creative, and she is curious about everything, which I hope never ceases! Our fur girl, Victory, is doing well, too, thankfully!

2024 was a very intense year, which included putting my first book, ABANDONED: Chronicling the Journeys of Once-Forsaken Dogs, into the world, which was no small or easy feat, for sure! In the past, I have chosen a word for the year. This year, coming off a very intense year, I have decided that I am going to concentrate on what is in front of me, work hard, and have fun! This idea came from a recent memoir entitled, Be Ready When the Luck Happens: A Memoir, which I loved. Maybe a mantra or a word, an intention will work for you; I think it is best to embrace the new year in some way that works for you! So, I am doing things a little differently this year!

Wishing you a Happy New Year!

Here is ABANDONED: Chronicling the Journeys of Once-Forsaken Dogs out in the world at a book store!