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Victory: Photography Project — 86

Beginning in January 2014, I started a weekly photography project with my muse, Victory!  I will continue to share this project on the blog this year!  My goal is to document all of Victory’s changes, while preserving fleeting moments and memories, while capturing moments of our everyday.

Over the past weekend, we all went to Keeneland, a place that Doug has been wanting to visit for a while.  On the way to Keeneland, we stopped at Woodford Reserve, a local distillery.  Doug’s Mom also joined us on our visit to Keeneland.  We had gorgeous weather and Victory was a hit!  You can even see Victory making her picks, below!  Doug even made a little money on a race!  A few images from our time in Keeneland are shown below, and we hope to return next year!

Happy Wednesday!

 

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‘Workhorse’ versus ‘Racehorse’

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Are you a ‘workhorse’ or a ‘racehorse’?  I consider myself a workhorse in almost every respect.

I cannot race through something just to finish.  However, I can keep going, making incremental progress and take a longer view, thereby working towards what I really want to achieve, which takes time, effort, and work, in most cases.  In relation to my long-term photography project, which I hope and plan to finish in the coming months, and with really anything in life, the best piece of advice I have received – is to continue to put one foot in front of the other and keep going without being paralyzed by it all.  This advice can be applied to really any area of our lives.  I believe one can accomplish so much with this approach, if one is willing to live with delayed gratification; be wiling to consistently work hard; have the ability to live with the uncertainty and unknown; and have faith that one’s efforts will pay off in the long-term, if one keeps going no matter obstacles one might encounter along the way.

So, if there is something that you really want to accomplish, chances are, taking the ‘workhorse’ approach will benefit you more in the long run versus the ‘racehorse’ approach.  The ‘racehorse’ approach may feel like an easier approach in the short-term, but it will not lead to the same desired outcomes.  After all, steady progress, work, and effort can lead to great things.

We hope that you have a great weekend!  We are visiting Keeneland with our fur girl, Victory!  Fortunately, Victory is permitted on the grounds of Keeneland!

“Don’t let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it.  The time will pass anyway; we might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use.” — Earl Nightingale

What is the value of a dog?

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How much is a dog worth?  This is a question that is currently being decided by the Georgia Supreme Court.

Lola, pictured above, was a little mix-breed dog who slept like a human and was an integral family member.  Sadly, Lola was 8 years old when she died of renal failure.  Lola’s parents, both attorneys, allege that an Atlanta dog kennel (“kennel”) gave Lola medication she was not supposed to receive leading to her untimely death.  The kennel denies these allegations.

The kennel in question argues that pets are property and plaintiffs may only recover the market value of their property before it was destroyed.  Lola’s parents did not pay anything for rescuing Lola from the shelter.  As a result, the kennel is arguing that Lola’s parents are not entitled to any damages for any alleged negligence that might have led to Lola’s death.

However, Lola’s parents stated they spent $67,000 on veterinary and related expenses, including regular dialysis treatments, in order to keep Lola alive.  Lola’s parents are seeking to recover these monies and argue that Lola’s market value is not the question at hand.  According to Lola’s parents, “Their [the kennel’s] position is that a dog is like a toaster…when you break it, you throw it away and get a new one.  A dog is indeed property under the law, but it’s a different kind of property.”

The outcome of this case has broader implications, according to the kennel.  Specifically, “If juries are allowed to consider a deceased pet’s sentimental value and medical expenses paid by its owners, the cost for kennels and veterinary care will rise, and groups such as the American Kennel Club, the Cat Fanciers’ Association and the American Veterinary Medical Association wrote an Amicus brief in support of the kennel’s legal arguments.

According to David Favre, a law professor and expert on animal law at Michigan State University, “When it comes to damages for the death of a pet, state supreme courts have usually knocked down trial and appellate court decisions that award emotional or ‘non-economic’ damages because they view it as a slippery slope.”  However, according to Favre, “There are a small number of states that have passed legislation on recoverable damages in these types of cases.”

It will be very interesting to follow this case to see what the Court ultimately decides in this case.  Clearly, pets are living beings with unique personalities that cannot be replaced, and require constant care and regular medical care.  Thus, pets are very different as compared to a piece of property such as a toaster, a non-living object, that is easily replaceable, and most reasonable people would not spend great amounts of money to repair a toaster, for example.

However, concerning damages for the death of a pet, if juries are permitted to consider a deceased pet’s sentimental value and medical expenses paid by the human owners, perhaps the level of care by the provider, whether that be the kennel or veterinary practices, will be taken more into consideration to prevent unnecessary mistakes from happening, as there could be an adverse consequence for the providers.  When one hands over his/her pet, furry family member, to a kennel for lodging and/or to a veterinarian for medical treatment, with current laws, most human owners do not have any recourse if negligence occurs, which is unsettling.  Perhaps there needs to be a more even playing field.

*The above photo is courtesy of Lola’s family.

ASPCA: 150 Days of Rescue

The American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals (ASPCA) is celebrating its 150th anniversary this month.  In honor of this important milestone, the ASPCA is launching 150 Days of Rescue, a nationwide action campaign that seeks to unite the country in making a difference in the lives of homeless and abused animals.

Animal lovers are encouraged to visit the ASPCA and pledge their time between April 10 and September 7, 2016, to help animals in need, with the goal of reaching 150,000 positive actions for animals in 150 days.  Ways to participate include volunteering at a  local shelter, donating, fostering, adopting a shelter pet, etc.  Animal lovers who log their good deed will also be given the opportunity to nominate their favorite animal shelter to receive a grant prize of $150,000!

You can watch the video below featuring celebrities (Martha Stewart; Kesha; 50 Cent; Edie Falco; Nathan Lane; Julie Bowen; Krysten Ritter; Jason Schwartzman, and others) who are speaking on behalf of vulnerable animals in humorous ways.

 

 

 

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Victory: 2.5 Years In

“Our prime purpose in life is to help others.  And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.” –Dali Lama

Today marks two and a half years with our fur girl, Victory!  We can hardly believe how fast our time together is passing.  We had our Biscuit for exactly two and a half years, so this mark in time is significant for us.

Reflecting on our time together, Victory has made so much progress since we first met her and adopted our sweet girl.  You can see how much she has changed even since one year after her adoption, shown  below.  In addition to positive physical changes, Victory is more out going with us; however, she often still does not show this side to others because she gets nervous.  She has vocal cords!  One morning, recently, she showed us her high-pitched bark, which reverberated throughout the house, while I was brushing out her fur coat!  She loves to play with us right before bed, and she is quite agile.  She runs and jumps all over the bed and tries to put our hands and fingers in her mouth, a favorite pastime!  She loves her night-time tummy massages before bed, while laying on my pillows, and she loves to get them on the weekend mornings, too!

Most of all, Victory gives us so much love.  I have not been feeling well recently, and, in addition to Doug, Victory has stayed right by my side, never wavering.  We look forward to our trips together with our fur girl this year!  We try never to take our time together for granted.  Most of all, we are very happy Victory is healthy and happy!  We feel so grateful.

Pictured below is Victory two and a half years since her adoption!

 

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Pictured below on the left is Victory shortly after she was rescued taken by her foster mom in the fall of 2013; pictured in the middle is Victory one year since her adoption — October 12, 2014; and pictured on the right is Victory two and half years since her adoption — April 12, 2016!

 

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Happy Tuesday!

Things I Love: Spring 2016

Well, it is technically spring, the trees are in bloom, we can her the bird chirping in the morning, and the days are getting longer!  Below are the items I am loving this spring!

 

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1. Amazon Prime – We love having Amazon Prime.  We were a little late to this party, but we love the free shipping and the extra fast, next day, shipping along with a myriad of television series and movies that are available, too!

2. Nick and Nora Pajamas — I love these pajamas.  They are made out of a soft, stretchy jersey like material and they are not too warm, but yet warm enough!  These pajamas even come in a dog pattern as well!

3. Batiste Dry Shampoo — When you are on the go or traveling, etc., you are going to love this magical little can that works miracles on your hair.

4. Trader Joe’s Cards — I love sending actual paper cards to friends and family, a dying tradition, and I really like the variety of artists’ work and quality of the greetings cards at Trader Joe’s, and they are a fraction of the price of other greeting cards!  Everyone loves receiving cards!

5. Serendipity Frozen Hot Chocolate  For dessert sometimes, Doug makes us the most delicious Serendipity Frozen Hot Chocolate!  It is amazing!  You can also visit the Serendipity Restaurant in Manhattan!

6. LetterFolk — I love our LetterFolk Poet, that we now have in our house.  It is great because we can constantly change the words/messages/quotes/mantras, as needed!  We love it!

You can view other things I love here!

Happy Wednesday!

Victory: Photography Project — 85

Beginning in January 2014, I started a weekly photography project with my muse, Victory! I will continue to share this project on the blog this year!  My goal is to document all of Victory’s changes, while preserving fleeting moments and memories, while capturing moments of our everyday.

We hope that you had a nice Easter!  The Easter Bunny visited Victory and gave her some toys, of course!  Now she has more toys to hoard!  We gave Victory a bath this weekend and her fur coat feels silky smooth and fluffy!  She looks great and her fur coat continues to grow in!  She is much more fluffy than when we first met Victory.  It is really difficult to believe that next month we will have had our fur girl for 2.5 years!  The time is really flying by quickly.

Happy Monday!

 

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My Sister’s Maternity Photos

While I was in Ann Arbor recently visiting for my sister’s baby shower, my sister, Kassie, braved the cold weather, as it was in the thirties, and we took a few portraits at Island Park, so that she can forever remember this special time in her life.  Kassie looks so beautiful and she is glowing.  A few of my favorite images are shown below.  Kassie is nearly 34 weeks pregnant in these images below.  (Dress: A Pea in the Pod).

 

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My Sister’s Baby Shower

My sister, Kassie, and her husband are having their first baby very soon!  This past weekend, my Mom and I hosted Kassie’s baby shower luncheon in Ann Arbor at Zingerman’s, one of our favorite restaurants!  I had fun selecting the invitations since I love tangible cards!  The weather was cold, so we held the shower on the heated and enclosed patio, and fortunately there was no rain!  The cake turned out very well, too.  The cake design was inspired by the invitations, which helped tie things together, which the Zingerman’s Bakehouse created and helped design.  For favors, the Zingerman’s Bakehouse made cookies, which were also inspired by the invitations: a silver star; a red heart; and a blue onesie, all sealed with a custom-designed seal!  Kassie received many very nice gifts from all of her guests!  Of course, we gave her the Ergo as one of her gifts!  Everyone had a great time and the appetizers, the food, and the cake were delicious, as always!  Everyone also enjoyed the flavored water station as well.

A snapshot of Kassie’s baby shower is shown below!  We cannot wait to meet our soon-to-be nephew in several weeks!  (And, lastly, our matching polka dot dresses was fortuitous!)

 

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Around Here: March

We have been enjoying warmer temperatures this month, thankfully!  We also hope that spring officially arrives on time this weekend!  Below are some items that have occurred around here in March!

-continuing to work steadily on my long-term photography project, and one portion of the deliverable remains to be completed; I have a few more months to go to finally finish this large endeavor!

-still working on a new design for my website, which I hope will be finished later this spring/summer.

-co-hosting, with my Mom, my sister’s baby shower in Ann Arbor, this weekend, at one of our favorite restaurants, Zingerman’s!

-burning spring scented candles in our house!

-opening our windows and letting fresh air into the house for the first time in months!

-enjoying fun date nights with Doug!  We went to one of our favorite restaurants in Delaware last weekend!

-enjoying cooking with Doug and trying new dinner recipes.  Here are a few of our recent favorites so far this month: chicken tortilla soup and lasagna.

-we are soon going to prep and clean our decks to get ready to use this spring and summer, including getting our windows cleaned!

-putting up our spring door wreaths.

-still enjoying my yoga class!

-enjoying the warmer temperatures with long walks around the neighborhood and dinners together outside!

-getting tickets for Pups in the Park, which we enjoyed for the first time last year!

-enjoying this podcast and this podcast.

-enjoyed this interview.

-I began reading Being Mortal by Atul Gawande — a really good read so far.  Also, we heard Atul Gawande speak several times at previous New Yorker Festivals.

-if you haven’t read this book, you should — it is a really good book and it really puts life in perspective.

-watched the first season of Love — a fun television series.

-started the fourth season of House of Cards!

-we’re very excited and looking forward to going to Michigan to meet, hold, and photograph our soon-to-be nephew!  We can’t wait to meet him!

-using my Fitbit and I’m hitting 10,000 steps per day most days.

-continuing to make incremental progress on our ever-growing to do list!

Happy Thursday!  Have a wonderful weekend!

 

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