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Why I Like Photo Albums

Most people today have their images saved on their phones and computers.  Doug and I actually still keep photos in our wallet/purse.  Some people are surprised to see this “old-fashioned” method of sharing photographs.  Creating actual photo albums seems to be a practice of the past.  Especially after Biscuit’s passing, I am thankful that I have consistently printed images and continued make photo albums documenting our life together.  It is also nice to go back and look at photographs from when Doug and I first met nine years ago!  It is nice to be able to flip through actual pages of the albums I have made.  I have made about 18 photo albums over the past nine years.  Being able to see and touch the pages in a photo album has a tactile element that is often lost with our technology today.  (I also electronically store and archive all of our digital images as well).  I am in the process of making the remaining photo albums of our little Biscuit.   It is difficult knowing that I am not able to photograph Biscuit any longer.

The photo album making process also helps me determine what images I am going to hang and/or display in our home.  The select images that I am especially fond of I have printed on fine art archival paper; and then I have these images matted and framed in an archival fashion and displayed in our home in order to preserve these photographs.

If you print your images as you take them, it makes the task of creating photo albums much less daunting.  Thus, I encourage you to create actual photo albums, which simultaneously make nice family heirlooms!

Happy Monday!

 

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How Falling in Love is like Having a Furry Family Member

I recently discovered this lovely poem entitled, How Falling in Love is like Owning a Dog by Taylor Mali.  I find the sentiments of this poem very true.  Doug and I instantly fell in love with our first furry family member, Biscuit.  Our love, Biscuit, forever changed and enriched our lives.  We know that we will fall in love again with our next furry family member, Victory.

 

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Becoming a Possibiltarian

Become a possibiltarian.  No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see possibilities–always see them, for they’re always there. ”  ~Dr. Norman Vincent Peale

I am becoming a possibilitarian.  How about you?  Do you see the bright light of your life’s horizon (even on the average days)?  Do you feel its warmth (even when you are struggling)?  Have you begun to touch the surface of all that is possible for your life?  If so, then you are a possibilitarian, too.  It is the best feeling in the world — this thinking of what is possible.  It is energy; it is passion; it is dreaming big; and taking small steps, one foot in front of the other.

Possibilitarians do not settle for the status quo, or necessarily for what is familiar.  Possibilitarians are always asking forward thinking, optimistic questions — “What would it take to make that happen?” Or, “Who would I need to support me in order to make this change happen?”  Or even, “What false beliefs am I holding on to that are keeping me and others from reaching our potential?”

I first learned about the Possibiltarian Project from Kelly Rae Roberts.  I think that it is a fantastic idea and project!  I hope that you consider becoming a possibiltarian as well!  This way of thinking is life changing!

 

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Things I Love: Fall 2013

Can you believe that it is officially fall already!  The summer seemed to zoom right by!  I am happy it is fall because fall is my favorite season and time of year!  Shown below are a few things that I am loving!

 

Things I love Fall 2013

 

1. Organix – I love Organix shampoo and conditioner.  I have tried the awapuhi ginger shampoo and conditioner and it works really well!  I picked this up at the store on a whim, and it works really well, especially for a non-salon shampoo and conditioner.  My hairdresser commented how good my hair felt!

2. House of Cards – Doug and I recently renewed our Netfix subscription and greatly enjoyed the series, House of Cards!  It was very good and we could not stop watching one episode after another — we were hooked!  Also, portions of this series was filmed in Baltimore!

3. GU Desserts – I recently discovered the GU Desserts at Wegmans.  The chocolate gnanche is decadent– although it has tons of calories!  As a result, I am not going to make a habit of eating these ymmy treats too often!  I look forward to sampling more of the other GU Desserts!  I highly recommend trying these yummy temptations!

4. KRR Scarves – I recently ordered the Kelly Rae Roberts “Have Faith” and “Surrender” scarves.  I really like the messages on these scarves and, perhaps by wearing them, it will create stronger faith and the ability to surrender, which are especially helpful messages when one is pursuing creative endeavors.  Also, I found that I like scarves — a nice accessory to dress up an outfit!

5. Word Stones – I love stones with inspiring words on them.  I recently started to collect them, and I discovered some stones with words at Ten Thousand Villages, a non-profit, fair trade company.  This store has really neat items from all over the world.

6. Virgils Orange Cream Soda – This is the best orange cream soda that I have ever had!  I do not drink a lot of soda, but this is a special treat.  I highly recommend trying this soda if you like orange cream soda!

Happy Wednesday!

Good Read: The Power of Patience by M.J. Ryan

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Good Read: The Power of Patience by M.J. Ryan

I finished reading The Power of Patience by M.J. Ryan.  This book offers many different ways of looking at patience and practicing patience each day.  I really enjoyed this book.  I found this book easy to read and filled with helpful information and various perspectives concerning patience.  Doug, my husband, has the most patience of anyone I have ever met.

The portion of this book that resonated with me discussed patience in relation to receptivity.  Here is a quote from this book.  “However, the receptive energy of patience is real work!  It takes effort to not simply run off and do something for the sake of doing it, to live in the unknown for as long as it takes without becoming angry, bitter, or depressed.  It may look like nothing on the surface.  But underneath, within ourselves, we’re lifting some heavy timber.”

“Sometimes no amount of dynamic energy will get us what we want.  At those times, all we can do is stop and wait patiently for the future to unfold.  This capacity to wait expectantly, opening ourselves up to help from the universe is what receptivity is all about.  Not everything can be accomplished through willpower — sometimes what we need is a bit of wait power.”

I found this premise outlined above to be powerful — sometimes we need a bit of “wait power” versus taking action.  I find sometimes it is difficult to determine, depending on the circumstances, whether to “take action” or not.  Sometimes, no action is a form of action.

Below are a few more quotes from this book that really struck a chord with me.

“Waiting patiently asks us to allow life to move through and transform us as we bend like cattails in the wind, twisting and turning but somehow surviving.”

“Patience is created when we keep our eyes on the big picture and don’t get so caught up in the minutia of our daily lives.  It’s like having a wide-angle lens on a camera as well as a zoom.  Up close, even a molehill can seem overwhelming; from a distance, we can see that in fact it’s not a mountain.  The good news is that you’re holding the camera — and can switch lenses anytime you want.”

“Patience is the willingness to be in the now exactly as it is.  Even if we wish or hope or pray that someday it will change, patience allows us to live as happily and contentedly as possible right now.”

I highly recommend this book to anyone who wishes to increase his/her awareness concerning patience.

We Are Moved!

Doug and I are moved!  It is nice to have our personal belongings in one location!  The move went pretty smoothly all in all, thank goodness.  We spent last week packing final items and taking some of our items to the new house that we did not want the movers to handle.  It has been a lot of work to say the least!

We have waited patiently for the past nine months for our new home to be completed!  It is very nice that everything has come together for us.  This past week, the builder has been making some final adjustments per our punch list and hopefully these remaining items will be completed shortly.  We are happy with our house, and our neighbors are nice and friendly, which is an added bonus!  We also recently discovered that there are at least two female furry friends living on our street along with many other furry friends throughout the neighborhood!  We can’t wait for Victory to meet some of these new furry friends!

We have begun unpacking and getting some semblance of order!  Wish us luck!  We look forward to making this our home.  We have never had this much living space and a garage for the cars — we are so excited to have this extra space!  We feel very grateful.  We are also happy that we have our cable/internet installed, our own dedicated line, which is quite fast — thank you Verizon!

We know that Biscuit is with us and he would want us to be happy.  We miss Biscuit dearly, and it has been difficult not having him here with us.  I do not believe we ever stop missing our furry family members.

 

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Milton Glaser — Thoughts on Art and Creativity

“You learn more and more that everything exists at once with its opposite, so the contradictions of life are never-ending and somehow the mediation between these opposites is the game of life.”  ~Milton Glaser

I find it fascinating and inspiring to read about and listen to artists speak about their story, art making, and thoughts on creativity.  I believe that we can learn so much from others.  In this beautiful and wide-ranging interview from The Good Life Project, Milton Glaser offers an unprecedented tour of his magnificent mind and spirit.  Glaser is a well-known graphic designer living in New York.  Some transcribed highlights are shown below.

Where the seed of his creativity originates:

I have no idea where it comes from. The thing that I do know is that after a while, you begin to realize, A) how little you know about everything and, B) how vast the brain is and how it encompasses everything you can imagine — but, more than that, everything you can’t imagine.  What is perhaps central to this is the impulse to make things, which seems to me to be a primary characteristic of human beings — the desire to make things, whatever they turn out to be. And then, supplementary to that, is the desire to create beauty — which is a different but analogous activity.  So, the urge to make things is probably a survival device; the urge to create beauty is something else — but only apparently something else, because, as we know, there are no unrelated events in human experience.

Glaser reminds us that the creative impulse is integral to what makes us human:

There is something about making things beautiful, and we sometimes call that art, that has something to do with creating a commonality between human beings so that they don’t kill each other.  And whatever that impulse is, and wherever it comes from, it certainly is contained within every human being. … Sometimes, the opportunity to articulate it occurs; sometimes, it remains dormant for a lifetime.

On his own unrelenting expression of that profound human characteristic:

I imagined myself as a maker of things from the age of five.  I realized that to make something was miraculous, and I never stopped.

Recounting the formative moment in which he awakened to art, when his older cousin drew a bird for little Milton on the side of a paper bag and it suddenly came alive for the young boy, Glaser reflects:

I suddenly realized that you could create life — that you could create life with a pencil and a brown paper bag — and it was truly a miracle in my recollection.  Although people are always telling me that memory is just a device to justify your present, it was like I received the stigmata and I suddenly realized that you could spend your life inventing life.  And I never stopped since — at five, my course was set.  I never deviated, I never stopped aspiring or working in a way that provided the opportunity to make things that, if you did right, moved people.

Glaser reminds us that the art of life is not in choosing between opposites but in reconciling them.

You learn more and more that everything exists at once with its opposite, so the contradictions of life are never-ending and somehow the mediation between these opposites is the game of life.

Glaser counsels that the first step to making better life choices is acknowledging the bad ones you have made, and drawing cultivates mindfulness  and the essential art of seeing:

The first step is always, in the Buddhist sense, to acknowledge what is — and that’s very hard to do.  But, incidentally, drawing — and attentiveness — is one of the ways you do that.  The great benefit of drawing … is that when you look at something, you see it for the first time.  And you can spend your life without ever seeing anything.

On how welcoming the unknown helps us live more richly.

I can sound as though I know the answers to these things — I don’t know the answer to anything.  You have to constantly be attentive to what you deflect in life, and what you pay attention to, and all the things that you can’t see, and all the preconceptions that you do have about everything.  Those preconceptions basically blur your vision — it’s very hard to see what’s in front of you.

Thoughts on how technology is changing us:

Everything changes everything.  There are no independent events. … The virtual world has created a very different kind of nervous system for people who spend their lives in that world.  And it produces different sets of appropriateness — of time, of morality, of ethics, of behavior. … [But] we don’t know what this is doing to the human psyche or the human behavior or any of it — we know it’s changing, we know it’ll be a profound change and it won’t be what it was, but we don’t know what the nature of that will finally be.  It will probably have some benefits and significant drawbacks, but it is just emerging.  [We] are creating a new kind of person.

On always harnessing the gift of ignorance and never ceasing to expand oneself: 

Professional life is very often antithetical to artistic life, because in professional life you basically repeat what you already know — your previous successes.  It’s like marketing — marketing is the enemy of art, because it is always based on the past — not that art is always based on the future, but it’s very often based on transgression.  So when you do something that basically is guaranteed to succeed, you’re closing the possibility for discovery.

Reflecting on art education and the cultural tension between art and business, Glaser adds to history’s definition of art: 

You have to separate making a living … from enlarging one’s understanding of the world, and also … providing an instrumentality for people to have a common purpose and a sense of transformation. … That is what the arts provide — the sense of enlargement, and the sense that you haven’t come to the end of your understanding, either of yourself or of other things.

Thoughts on Kindness

“Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see.” ~Mark Twain

George Saunders gave the graduation speech at Syracuse University this year, and the New York Times recently published it.  Have you read it?  His advice centers around being kind and, more specifically, avoiding “failures of kindness.”  Below are some excerpts from his speech.

Now, one useful thing you can do with an old person, in addition to borrowing money from them, or asking them to do one of their old-time “dances,” so you can watch, while laughing, is ask: “Looking back, what do you regret?” And they’ll tell you….

Here’s something I know to be true, although it’s a little corny, and I don’t quite know what to do with it: What I regret most in my life are failures of kindness.

Those moments when another human being was there, in front of me, suffering, and I responded…sensibly.  Reservedly.  Mildly.

Or, to look at it from the other end of the telescope: Who, in your life, do you remember most fondly, with the most undeniable feelings of warmth?

Those who were kindest to you, I bet.

It’s a little facile, maybe, and certainly hard to implement, but I’d say, as a goal in life, you could do worse than: Try to be kinder.

You can read the full speech here.

I think that it is true that we need more kindness in this world.  I know for me, those who stand out in my mind are the people and animals who have been and are kind to me.  Kindness goes farther than you will ever know.  Thus, seize the moment and try to be kinder.

 

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Featured: The Wall Breakers

I am very grateful to be featured in The Wall Breakers displaying my photographs in my black and white series.  The Wall Breakers is an online publication dedicated to a establishing a creative community displaying works of industry professionals and artists.  You can view the entire feature here.

A big thank you to James, Co-Editor and Co-Founder, The Wall Breakers!

 

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Honoring Biscuit: Introducing Victory — the ‘right’ little sheltie Biscuit is sending to us!

Doug and I miss Biscuit very much.  We have experienced such a great loss that is difficult to express in words.  It has been very difficult for both of us.  We know that there will never be another Biscuit and that he will always be with us.  Biscuit has forever left an imprint in our hearts.  We hope that Biscuit is having a grand time running and playing in a body free of sickness and pain; and we are hopeful that he is watching over us each day.  I think of all of the wonderful gifts Biscuit gave to us, which we continue to receive today.  We know in our hearts that Biscuit would want us to rescue another sheltie like him so another sheltie can have a second chance to have a wonderful life like Biscuit had in his final years, which is the vision of Biscuit’s Space.  Doug and I have always believed that Biscuit would send us the ‘right’ sheltie at the ‘right’ time.

During our somewhat recent visit to the Sheltie Haven Sheltie Rescue, Inc., Director, Carol Guth, told us about a recent terrible sheltie hording/raid situation in Michigan that she learned about through her sheltie rescue network.  You can learn further about this horrible situation here, herehere, and here.   After learning about this horrendous situation, Doug and I decided that we wanted and needed to help.

As such, Carol Guth contacted Carol Strotheide, the Director of the Michigan Sheltie Rescue, to determine whether this rescue organization would work with us to allow us to rescue one of these shelties, especially since it involves crossing states lines.  (We have learned, however, that not all rescue organizations will allow out of state adoptions).  After much correspondence with the Michigan Sheltie Rescue, Doug and I have been approved to rescue and adopt a sheltie.  Per the Michigan Sheltie Rescue, there was one sheltie that was a match for us described in further detail below!  Carol Guth was integral in facilitating and making this adoption happen for us as her rescue organization, the Sheltie Haven Sheltie Rescue, Inc., is ‘backing’ this rescue and adoption.  (The Michigan Sheltie Rescue wants to ensure that the sheltie rescue dogs that are adopted out of state have a ‘backing’ sheltie rescue organization in the state where the sheltie will be living with his/her new furever family).  You can also read more about Carol Guth and her long-standing commitment to helping shelties here.  Additionally, please visit the Sheltie Haven Sheltie Rescue, Inc.’s new Facebook Page that went live yesterday!

As such, Doug and I will be traveling to Grand Rapids, Michigan, the western part of Michigan, in October to rescue and adopt a little sheltie named Victory, an approximately one-year-old female sable sheltie, pictured below, who will be ready for adoption at the end of September 2013!  We are very excited and we can’t wait to meet her!  We are currently getting our new home ready for little Victory and we are eager to begin this new chapter of our lives with a furry family member!  Victory is also coming to us at our five-year wedding anniversary — what a wonderful anniversary gift for us both!  She is just adorable, and as Victory continues to get older and she continues to receive proper care; proper nutrition; and proper veterinary care, her fur coat should come in even more.  Victory was named by her wonderful foster family and she is a sheltie that survived the atrocious situation outlined above.  Doug and I feel that we are being blessed a second time.  Please stay tuned for our adventures with little Victory — the ‘right’ little sheltie Biscuit is sending to us!

 

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The above photograph is courtesy of Victory’s foster family.