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My Book: ABANDONED is Available for Pre-Order!

I can hardly believe I am typing this blog post after so many years of working on this project! My book, Abandoned: Chronicling the Journeys of Once-Forsaken Dogs, is finally finished, and it is now available for pre-order, and it will be released on October 1, 2024, to kick off ‘Adopt-A-Dog Month!’ This project has been a labor of love, and I hope you will consider pre-ordering Abandoned now, as it is vital to the book’s success. My sincere hope is that Abandoned helps many dogs in need find permanent, loving homes, especially with our current dog overpopulation crisis in this country.

Abandoned is a result of a ten-year project following nearly sixty dogs from rescue to adoption, showcasing “before” and “after” photographs, which are accompanied by each dog’s personal story.  No other book has captured dogs in this manner.  It is a unique project that encompasses more than just photographs—as the dogs’ stories are integral, providing context and augmenting the photographs.  In addition to the dogs, I hope that people see that the human companions’ lives are changed in such positive, immeasurable ways. 

The idea for Abandoned, literally came to me on a summer day during 2012, roughly a year-and-a-half after we had adopted our first rescue dog named Biscuit, a Shetland Sheepdog, for whom this blog is named after.  He forever changed my life in so many ways—he opened my heart in a way like no other; and he brought me back to my love of photography. My curiosity and experience with Biscuit made me aware of the dog overpopulation crisis in our country, and this set me on a path to learn more about what happens to these abandoned dogs.  I began documenting the fate of roughly 60 dogs of various breeds, who found themselves in shelters or rescue organizations in the Mid-Atlantic region.  I first photographed each dog prior to adoption, and I then photographed these same dogs, again, roughly a year later.  Written narratives accompany the dogs’ photographs providing, to the extent possible, how, and why each dog was abandoned.  I also explore the significant positive impact these dogs have had on their human companions’ lives, and vice versa. It is my great hope that Abandoned will help raise awareness of this overpopulation crisis and encourage people to adopt a shelter or rescue dog.

It is an understatement that the publication of this body of work required contributions from a large number of people whom I owe such a great debt.

Here is a look inside Abandoned, shown below, and you can learn more about Abandoned and read editorial reviews, here.

I am donating a portion of my royalties, earned from the sales of this book, to the SPCA International, helping dogs in need around the globe. You can read more here and here.

Around Here . . .

Happy Summer! Alex finished up Kindergarten last month, followed by a trip to Great Wolf Lodge with some of her school friends, which she thoroughly enjoyed! We took a trip to Michigan to see family, and Victory saw our vet there where she had a mass removed, her teeth cleaned, and a wellness check. It turned out that this mass was cancerous; however, the vet got clean margins, so we are very grateful! We continue to keep an eye on Victory’s kidney function and her thyroid. We are just so grateful for our fur girl!

Alex had fun in Michigan seeing family. And, we finally got to meet Finn in person, our new family member, a rescue papillon! He is adorable! A few photos from our trip are shown below. Alex picked out her fireworks for her Fourth of July gathering with her friends–she is so excited! She also lost another tooth, while we were away! Additionally, we saw a Tiger’s game together; celebrated Father’s Day; went to the Binder Park Zoo, where we fed giraffes lettuce; took trips to the local pool; ate at local restaurants; we spent time together, and played a lot of Domino’s! Alex is really great at this game! And, Alex is on her first swim team, this summer, and she is having fun and doing well!

Inspirational Quotes on Creativity

Happy Friday! I hope you have a nice long weekend! Creative people need inspiration, and shown below are some inspirational quotes on the topic of creativity! Our daughter is one of the most creative people I know, and I hope she always keeps this quality–it’s a great quality to possess!

“Creativity is seeing what others see and thinking what no one else ever thought.” –Albert Einstein

“Art is the elimination of the unnecessary.” –Pablo Picasso

“You use a glass mirror to see your face. You use works of art to see your soul.” –George Bernard Shaw

“A creative life is an amplified life. It’s a bigger life, a happier life, and expanded life, and a hell of a lot more interesting life.” –Elizabeth Gilbert

“Don’t wait for inspiration. It comes while working.” –Henri Matisse

“The worst enemy to creativity is self-doubt.” –Sylvia Plath

“There is no doubt that creativity is the most important human resource of all. Without creativity, there would be no progress, and we would be forever repeating the same patterns.” –Edward De Bono

“You can’t use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have.” –Maya Angelou

“Art is the elimination of the unnecessary.” –Pablo Picasso

“Great things are done by a series of small things brought together.” –Vincent Van Gogh

“Make visible what, without you, might perhaps have never been seen.” –Oprah Winfery

“Creativity is a wild mind and a disciplined eye.” –Dorothy Parker

“Creativity doesn’t wait for that perfect moment. It fashions its own perfect moments out of ordinary ones.” –Bruce Garrabrandt

“You can’t wait for inspiration, you have to go after it with a club.” –Jack London

“Creativity is piercing the mundane to find the marvelous.” –Bill Moyers

“The creative person is willing to live with ambiguity. He doesn’t need problems solved immediately and can afford to wait for the right ideas.” –Abe Tannenbaum

“Creativity can solve almost any problem” –George Lois

“Imagination is the beginning of creation. You imagine what you desire, you will what you imagine and at last you create what you will.” –George Bernard Shaw

“What keeps life fascinating is the constant creativity of the soul.” –Deepak Chopra

“You don’t make art out of good intentions.” –Gustave Flaubert

“I dwell in possibility.” –Emily Dickinson

“Odd how the creative power at once brings the whole universe in order.” –Virginia Woolf

“The thing is to become a master and in your old age to acquire the courage to do what children did when they knew nothing.” –Earnest Hemingway

Around Here…

I cannot believe it is the middle of May, already — where has the time gone, it is literally flying, and the time seems to be going even faster since spring break!

Alex recently had her Spring Music Concert at school, and it was lovely — they sang wonderful songs, after much preparation. Alex is done with Kindergarten, in a few short weeks, which is so difficult to believe! She has grown in so many ways!

Alex continues to swim, and she will give the summer swim team a try this summer! Her favorite stroke is backstroke, and we are looking forward to checking out the new summer pool we joined! Alex also participated in some nature enrichment at school, and she is still going strong on making her art — she is very creative and comes up with some neat art project all on her own! Alex has her first tooth coming in, despite not losing a tooth yet, and we confirmed it was okay for this to happen with the dentist! We recently attended more birthday parties, which Alex always loves! We attended a Nationals’ baseball game, and plan to take Victory back to a game this year, for Pups in the Park, which we all love, and we are going to an Oriole’s game soon! This spring, I have been working really hard to finish up my book, and I cannot wait to share more with you in the coming weeks!

Our little family celebrated Mother’s Day early, as Doug is in Norway, and we all miss him dearly, and we cannot wait for him to return home! Fortunately, Signal, an app, has allowed us to video chat, like FaceTime, despite the time difference. I hope everyone had a nice Mother’s Day, and sending love and light to the fellow moms out there and peace and comfort to those who find this day difficult for any number of reasons. I feel so fortunate to be a mom to our little human and our beloved fur girl. There was a time that we were not sure if we would have a child of our own, and I count my blessings everyday. Alex is a wonderful, determined, and inspiring soul! As her mom, I am here to love her and Victory with my whole heart and guide Alex as best as I (we) can. Alex is — entirely beautifully — her own person. And what a privilege it is to share this time with her, to watch her forge her way, day by day!

Alex and I are pictured together, below, from our first Mother’s Day together to the present, as it is a tradition that we take a photo together, each year, on Mother’s Day!

Photography Quotes

It has been a very hectic week here, and the week flew by, again! Below are some of my favorite photography quotes that I lean on for inspiration. I hope you enjoy them as well!

“Art is seldom the result of true genius; rather, it is the product of hard work and skills learned and tenaciously practiced by regular people.” –Sally Mann

“The picture is like a prayer, an offering, and hopefully an opening through which to seek what we don’t know, or already know and should take seriously.” –Emmet Gowin

“To me, photography is the simultaneous recognition, in a fraction of a second, of the significance of an event.” –Henri Cartier-Bresson

“All photographs are accurate. None of them is the truth.” –Richard Avedon

“Photography is a way of feeling, of touching, of loving.  What you have caught on film is captured forever…it remembers little things, long after you have forgotten everything.” –Aaron Siskind

“Your photography is a record of your living, for anyone who really sees.” –Paul Strand

“It’s not when you press the shutter, but why you press the shutter.” –Mary Ellen Mark

“Photographing a cake can be art.” –Irving Penn

“In photography there is a reality so subtle that it becomes more real than reality.” –Alfred Stieglitz

“Photography to the amateur is recreation, to the professional it is work, and hard work too, no matter how pleasurable it may be.”  –Edward Weston

“To me, photography is a major force in explaining man to man.” –Edward Steichen

“Look and think before opening the shutter.  The heart and mind are the true lens of the camera.” –Yousuf Karsh

“It has never been my object to record my dreams, just the determination to realize them.” –Man Ray

“Which of my photographs is my favorite?  The one I’m going to take tomorrow.” –Imogen Cunningham

“Everything is a subject.  Every subject has a rhythm.  To feel it is the raison detre.  The photograph is a fixed moment of such a raison detre, which lives on in itself.” –Andre Kertesz

“Stare.  It is the way to educate your eye, and more.  Stare, pry, listen, eavesdrop.  Die knowing something. You are not here long.”  –Walker Evans

“Photography is more than a medium for factual communication of ideas.  It is a creative art.” –Ansel Adams

“I really believe there are things nobody would see if I didn’t photograph them.” –Diane Arbus

Make Your Own Path

I love these word by Lisa Congdon about making your own path in life, and maybe these words will resonate with you as well!

In the world today, we have so much more direct information about other people’s lives than we’ve ever ever had before. Social media keeps us abreast of everyone’s activities and accomplishments. As a result, we may sometimes feel like our lives aren’t as interesting as other people’s or that our work isn’t as impactful or our bodies aren’t as attractive. What we see on social media can make us feel horrible about ourselves! So, it’s important to use social media judiciously and to stay focused on the health and progress of your own journey without comparison. Create and nurture your own path.

Creativity

“Creativity is for everyone — it’s an innate human trait to build things and to express ourselves through the things we make.” —Suleika Jaouad

I loved Jaouad’s memoir Between Two Kingdoms. It was a wonderful read, and I highly recommend it. I love her ideas on creativity, balance, and rest. Below are a few excerpts from Jaouad on creativity from an interview on creativity, that I enjoyed, and you might too.

Doing things I’ve never done before, sparks joy. Over the last year, I’ve tried my hand at everything from painting watercolors to flower arranging, and I’m always looking for new forms of creative expression to twist my practice out of its usual ruts. Most recently it was a creative conversation with my husband, Jon Batiste. We sat down on the floor of his studio with a couple of microphones and some powerful community-sourced questions about life and creativity. We’d never really worked together in a professional capacity, and it was really fun to make something together, to learn how to edit audio and then to send it off into the world.

I am drawn and love journaling because it doesn’t require any training or expertise, and the barrier to entry is so low. You just need a notebook and a pen. Also, it can take any shape—stories, lists, poems or some kind of hybrid between writing and doodling. If you’re feeling uninspired, prompts can be useful too — The Isolation Journals has an archive of over 200 free creative prompts to get you started.

In the past, I wrapped up a lot of my self-worth in my productivity, which made it a struggle to balance rest and work. When I was diagnosed with cancer at 22, I wrote my column from my hospital room. While it was an amazing opportunity, I often pushed my body to the point of making myself sicker. I realized I had to build a career accommodating my limitations and lingering health challenges. So I chose the freelance route, which gave me as much flexibility as I needed.

Recently I’ve been thinking about the conflation of doing your best with doing the best. I think it’s a product of how hyper-productive and hyper-competitive American culture is — but whatever the case, I’ve been trying to disentangle the two. And I think that doing my best is trying my hardest, but not at the cost of my own well-being or the well-being of others around me. 

In terms of self-forgiveness and when doing your best falls short, I have a type-A personality and a turbo-charged, hyper-productive mentality, so I rarely feel like I’m doing enough. Something I’ve been trying out lately is keeping an accomplishment log of everything I did that day. Not only the work tasks but also the tendernesses — those good things I’ve done for myself and the people I care about. I count the work call and the nap equally. When I make that list, not only do I feel that I’ve done enough, I feel proud of my body and proud of myself.

I’m a big believer in contagion magic, which is the idea that objects are imbued with the people and places they’ve come in contact with. The objects I fall in love with and fill my home with typically hold some kind of special meaning to me. I’m an avid flea market and thrift store hunter of beautiful, unlikely finds, especially those that make you double-take, like a trompe l’oeil. 

We will all have life interruptions, be it illness or heartbreak or some other unexpected plot twist that brings you to the floor. Often we think we need to get through these times as quickly as possible. But the in-between moments, even though they’re difficult, are sacred and transformational. They’re rites of passage and should be honored, not rushed. Ultimately, I hope that my book Between Two Kingdoms feels like a companion through those valleys.

“[As] we get older, we tend to accept this strange idea that if we don’t do something professionally—if we’re not pursuing painting or writing or music seriously—that it’s not for us. I just don’t accept that. Humans are deeply creative beings.” —Suleika Jaouad

Read the full interview here.

Around Here Lately . . .

It’s been a hectic few weeks here! We all were sick with the flu, at different times, culminating roughly two weeks of sickness, and then we had spring break, where we went to the Shenandoah Valley for a few days with our girls, Alex and Victory. It was fun to get away for a few days, and Alex and Victory enjoyed getting away as well! We went to a children’s museum, which Alex loved, and we brought them to Harpers Ferry, which was fun! We had a quiet Easter at home, and Alex throughly enjoyed decorating eggs, and, most of all, she loved finding the eggs around our house on Easter morning! Alex is continuing her swim lessons, she is currently learning butterfly, but backstroke is her ultimate favorite stroke! We hope she will be able to join the summer swim team, as we finally got off of a long wait list to join a summer swim club with a swim team! Victory is doing well, but we did find a mass, recently, that is benign, and it will get removed this spring. Victory is immensely enjoying her Hound-About rides this spring! We savor each day with our fur girl! Doug has been busy at work and he is traveling more. And, I have been working hard to finish up the book, which has been quite an undertaking, and I cannot wait to share more with you on the book! Happy Spring!

Be Open

I love these sentiments from Lisa Congdon about staying open, shown below, and perhaps you will, too.

When we are open to experiencing and engaging with life fully, and when we think in terms of possibility instead of what won’t work, even in challenging circumstances, our capacity for growth and achievement is boundless. Have you had an intense emotional reaction to music or art? Have you tried something creatively even though you had no idea what you were doing or where it would lead? That was you being open! Even simple things like walking a new route with your dog each day or listening to a different genre of music can wake you up to new ideas, possibilities, and pathways.

And speaking about staying open, our sweet girl, Alex, was in her first musical this past weekend! She worked for the past five months preparing for this day, and it was wonderful to witness! Importantly, she stayed open to the process, even though she was a little nervous to perform!

The One Question I Ask My Daughter After School

Alex is usually pretty exhausted when she arrives home from school, especially on the days she stays later for enrichment or drama club.

I am always curious to hear about her day, but asking “How was school?” feels too broad (and never works).

And after over five years of parenting, I finally figured out a question that DOES elicit conversation. When Alex gets home, I give her a big hug and ask, “How was your day on a scale of 1 to 10?”

It is an easy conversation starter because she has to say only one word back; and once the ice is broken, she usually shares more with us. Also, the question helps show her that I am here and ready to talk about any kind of day she may have had, good or bad or just so-so. Because that is what life is!